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Dedication To my uncle.... [Apr. 27th, 2009|03:42 pm]
 

I prays to Lord Amitabha that his uncle will be reborn in the Pure Land.

Om Amideva Hrih x3

May all the merits be decicated to him .

Om Ah Hum x3

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(no subject) [Apr. 8th, 2009|03:36 pm]

You are striving to make favourable impressions all of the time and you are going out of your way to make the impression that you are something special. You are constantly on the watch to see how your friends and neighbours are reacting to your various ploys. But this is so unnecessary because most of the time you are in control of the situation - and you are, in the nicest sense of the word, a 'manipulator' because you use various strategies very cleverly in order to influence and obtain the necessary recognition.

You are feeling very disillusioned at this time and you feel that you are being left out of things. You know - or you think you know - what you want, but you seem unable to exert the effort to achieve your objectives. As a consequence, you are feeling left out and neglected. You would like to be afforded greater security and fewer problems.

You feel unhappy because you feel that you are not able to obtain the co-operation of those around you. All you would like at this time would be to achieve harmony within your circle.

Setback after setback has resulted in considerable stress and now you have got to the stage where you are continuously on your guard, not only to protect yourself from others but to protect yourself from yourself. It would seem that many of your unfulfilled hopes and dreams have led to uncertainty and suspicion. You no longer wish to answer to others and you are insisting on freedom of thought. You feel that you are fully self-sufficient and can control your own destiny. You are seeking ways to protect yourself from further loss of prestige and against further setbacks. You have become very dependent and you doubt that matters could possibly get any better in the immediate future and this negative attitude is leading you to exaggerate your claims and to refuse reasonable compromise.

You are trying to build up your own position and you resist all external influences. You insist that you are your own person and you will not tolerate any outside interference. Decisive and proud, you are true managerial material.

 


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First Post of the Year !!! 'Prayer for my Grandma [Feb. 3rd, 2009|05:52 pm]

Been really busy since 2009 since it the peak season for my work... du ve the time to blog. but today is the first blog of the year and it has to this...:

Please pray for my Grandma (Yong Chew Lan) to be reborn in the Pure Land by reciting the Lord Amitabha Buddha Mantra and dedicate the merits to her.

I thanks everyone for their kindness and help.

Lord Amitabha Buddha Mantra:

Om Amideva Hrih


With Love
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Friday [Dec. 12th, 2008|10:06 am]
dateless tonight ..... haha
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Sales at Tiong Barhu Plaza [Dec. 3rd, 2008|01:49 pm]
Tiong Barhu Plaza is having some sales for hair dye..

Honyu Hair dye selling at only $5

expire in Jul 2011

those interested can go see see look look
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TIRED..... [Dec. 1st, 2008|01:53 pm]
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1st Dec 2008

Last Month of the year 2008
2009 is approaching

A year is about to pass


::RECENT UPDATES::

Last Friday, i pulled out from my client place
was so happy that i have finished that job....
but will be gng back after christmas....
Argh!!!!

Had a haircut....
a new style but short...
a way to destress myself from work...

meet up wef ron for dinner.... then drink wef troy oso...

woke up very early on Sat cos of an goodwill vball match.
managed to get third for that
think it will put an end to vball competition for this year...

went down beach wef brian to meet up wef the rest at Sentosa...
hmmm had quite a fun time there..


Went to EXpo for the IT fair....

:::::Brought:::::

1 external HDD 320GB
1 number pad for work
1 ear phone
1 speaker

Dinner at Chom chom after tat....

then went DBL O after tat....
Drink are Freaking cheap

had 10 shots....

then went PLAY
been a long time since i last went...
so many ppl..
but i still managed to dance
saw matt... teased him... haha

slept till 2 pm on sun..

then vball again at night...

body is gng to go on strike le....



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BAd Day [Oct. 22nd, 2008|11:19 pm]
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work todae..... left client palce early then went out with troy for coffee.... then to bukit merah for vball then it start to rain....sianz....


then on way home, i switch on mi ipod, then when i press next song, the screen freeze and no music.... went back home tried to synsc it.... then no signal....

think it dead,.... have to send for service but think warranty over le... haiz
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help needed [Oct. 22nd, 2008|12:06 am]
hey everyone,

need help from you all,

any ideas which programme can i use to convert song to minus 1

or anyone has any recommendation of songs that can be use for fashion show for evening wear?

thanks
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Zouk Tonight [Oct. 3rd, 2008|05:33 pm]
Hey all,

anyone gng to Zouk later.... cos i should be there as mi com has an event there earlier
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About H.E. The 5th Dagri Dorje Chang [Jul. 25th, 2008|12:50 am]
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Gagri Dorje Chang, renowned as one of the greatest Lamas of Tibet, is the lineage holder of the Yamantaka practice. Born in Lhasa in 1956, he was recognised as the reincarnation of his predessor, the 4th Dagri Dorje Chang at the tender age of one. After the Chinese invasion, he served a a school teacher in Lhasa. In 1983, he managed to escape to India and was then advised H.H The 14th Dalai Lama to further pursue his study of Dharma. In 1999, he graduated as a Geshe Lharampa from Sera Je Monastery and was also foremost in his class at Gyurme Tantric College.

Rinpoche completed numerous extensive retreats and has been teaching in Europe and Asia. His disciples of his previous reincarnations include Denma Lochoe Rinpoche, Jangtse Choje Rinpoche, Ribur Rinpoche, Choden Rinpoche, Khensur Lobsang Thupten, Sermey Khensur Ngawang Thekchok, Geshe Sopa, Lama Thubten Yeshe, Geshe Lama Konchog and many more.

Rinpoche's Dharma Activites

27 Jul 3.30 pm
Guru Puja

28, 29,30 Jul 8pm
Teaching - Guide to the Bodhisattva's way of Life (English and Chinese)

1 Aug 8pm
Lama Chopa Chanting

2 Aug 10am
White Mahakala Tea Offering Puja

2 Aug 2 pm
Teaching - Offering of charity to Hungry Ghosts

2 Aug 8pm
Initiation - Buddha Amitayu *

3 Aug 10am
Animal Liberation

3 Aug 8pm
Initiation - Medicine Buddha *

4 Aug 8pm
Teaching - The four Noble Truths

5 Aug 7.30pm
Teaching - The Four Noble Truths

5Aug 9pm
Guru Puja

* Please be on pure Vegetarian for the day of initiations

Thekchen Choling Singapore
2 Beatty Lane Singapore  209945
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81827220
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(no subject) [Jul. 4th, 2008|04:32 pm]


You Are Chopsticks



People see you as exotic, unusual, and even a bit intimidating.

You are a difficult person to figure out.



In truth, you try to live a very simple life.

But most people are too frenzied to recognize the beauty of your simplicity.

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(no subject) [Jun. 11th, 2008|10:22 am]

You are The Devil

Materiality. Material Force. Material temptation; sometimes obsession

The Devil is often a great card for business success; hard work and ambition.

Perhaps the most misunderstood of all the major arcana, the Devil is not really "Satan" at all, but Pan the half-goat nature god and/or Dionysius. These are gods of pleasure and abandon, of wild behavior and unbridled desires. This is a card about ambitions; it is also synonymous with temptation and addiction. On the flip side, however, the card can be a warning to someone who is too restrained, someone who never allows themselves to get passionate or messy or wild - or ambitious. This, too, is a form of enslavement. As a person, the Devil can stand for a man of money or erotic power, aggressive, controlling, or just persuasive. This is not to say a bad man, but certainly a powerful man who is hard to resist. The important thing is to remember that any chain is freely worn. In most cases, you are enslaved only because you allow it.

What Tarot Card are You?
Take the Test to Find Out.

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Sky - A Spritual Song on the Nature of Reality [Jun. 9th, 2008|01:50 pm]
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Sky - A Spiritual Song on the Nature of Reality

Composed on the 11 day of the 7th Lunar Month on the year of the Iron Snake western year 2001 at 11.40 p.m. by lowly yogi Thubten Namdrol in response to the call of much needed advice for the disciples of "Thekchen Choling" which was requested by the most kind Namdrol Tsepal (Analine) whom faced similar problems but with bodhicitta asked for advice to counter the "nature of the mind".

May you all meet with success with the practice of the Dharma!

"Sky", what is your colour, "Sky"?
Are you "blue" as we say in English , or are you "green" as we say in Tibetan?
So what are you? Tell me your colour...
"Sky", what is your nature, "Sky"?
Are you "Sunny", "Cloudy" or "Storming"?
What ever your "nature" is, you are still the "Sky"!
"Sky", so what are you, "Sky"?
Are you "truly existent" as we believe or are you just "there"?
Whatever you are, you are but a "perception of our minds"...
"Mind", What is your colour, "Mind"?
Are you "blue", "green" or "red" as we label you?
So what are you? Tell me your colour...
"Mind", what is your nature, "Mind"?
Are you "happy", "jealous" or "angry"?
What ever your "nature" is, you are still "non-inherently existent"!
"Mind", so what are you "Mind"?
Are you "truly existent" as we believe or have you always been "there"?
Whatever you are, you are but a "transmigrated mental continuum".
So "awaken" and start to see "things", then all will then be meaningless...
With nothing to "claim" and nothing to "cling",
strive to truly "Renounce", and train intently with "Bodhicitta",
then the "Right view of Emptiness" will slowly start to grow within our minds.
With all things being "truly empty" because of all being "truly labelled",
Where then is anything being "truly existent"...
When everything is then so hollow of being existent of it's own side, then the "right view of emptiness" will arise.
Thus, give up all clinging, even clinging to these "thoughts of mind training",
And there will be nothing left to grasp...
So "World", what are you "World"?
Where are you? "World"?...

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special prayers for those affected by Cyclone Ngaris in Myanmar and the earthquake in China. [May. 22nd, 2008|01:12 am]

Thekchen Choling will be conducting special prayers for those affected by Cyclone Ngaris in Myanmar and the earthquake in China. Join us as we make prayer dedications to victim who perished , for them to obtain a happy rebirth, as well as for the well-being of survivors.

Prayer for Survivors - MEDICINIE BUDDHA SUTRA on 24th May 2008 Sat 8pm.
Prayer for Deceased - GREAT CONFESSION SUTRA 25th May 2008 Sun from 11am.
Participate in making these dedications for just $10 per prayer. Simply come down to Thekchen Choling or send us the following details together with a cheque payable to "Thekchen Choling(Singapore)", sent to 2 Beatty Lane Singapore (209945).

Name:  
Address :  
Mobile Number :  
Email  

Thekchen Choling will donate a portion of the proceed to the victims.

THE TIME HAS COME TO RECONNECT OUR HEARTS, SPIRITUALITY AND HERITAGE! Click here for Vesak registration form


 

http://www.thekchencholing.org/Templates/menu_b.htm

 

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Anger [May. 12th, 2008|10:52 pm]
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Anger

Antidote to Anger

If you are feeling angry, the easiest way of dealing with it, and which doesn’t need great understanding of high Buddhist philosophy, is to simply have a friend or loved one come to you and hug you and just show love and affection for you.

Anger’s Antidote
All you need is someone who’s brave enough to hug you and hold your hand; that’s enough to help you deal with your anger. There’s no point telling you about high Buddhist philosophy which you don’t understand. If you are feeling angry, the easiest way of dealing with it, and which doesn’t need great understanding of high Buddhist philosophy, is to simply have a friend or loved one come to you and hug you and just show love and affection for you. That’s enough! That’s all it takes to help you deal with the anger! If you need a book to read on anger, I recommend reading His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama’s book, “Healing Anger”.

Agony Aunt
The best way to diffuse your anger is to look at my photo or of an image of the Buddha and to pour out your sufferings and complaints to it. The best person to listen to your worries and complaints is someone with long ears-the Buddha! So what you can do is complain to the Buddha by having an image of the Buddha in front of you and pouring out your heart to the image. Feel that the Buddha is listening. Also, you should try recording the complaints you make to the Buddha. After you’ve complained enough to the Buddha image and have cooled off, rewind the recording and listen to yourself complaining. This method is helpful because first, you let off steam and get it out of your system. Second, you get to hear yourself speak and will find how yucky it is! When I was young, I used to complain before Buddha images a lot, till one day I prayed to be able to listen to people’s complaints instead. Because of that one prayer, now everyone complains to me!

Appreciating Others
We are all interconnected. If you have gold or money but there is no one who sells clothing, you will have no clothes to wear despite being rich. Also, do you know the person who invented cloth, shampoo, or the glasses you wear? No. Yet, we have forgotten to be grateful to other people. Without others, there is no way that our lives would have all its comforts. We must not forget how much of our comforts and happiness depend on the work and kindness of others.

Past Lives
In our previous lives, we have been in different forms and shapes due to the different causes and conditions. However, despite the fact that we have lived through countless past lives, we must look forward.

A lot of people like to know what they have been in their previous lives. This is a favorite question people like to ask me! Well, we’ve all most definitely been animals and insects. However, if you keep dwelling on the past, you’ll have no future. You need to condition your current existence so as to condition future lives. I’ve seen beings who are quarrelsome and overly defensive, and in their next lives, they usually become scorpions or crabs, creatures that like to fight. A person who is used to being rich will want to look for a nice home. In the same way, if you are used to being angry or having other negative emotions, in your next life you will continue to seek out these emotions and express them. Our future “home”, i.e. our future life, is decided by our karma, We have the freedom now to create conditions for future lives. I know that I can’t be Buddha in this lifetime; I don’t think any of us in this life can even become a high lama. However, what I have is conditions from my previous lives to enable me to stick very closely to the Dharma. This, as my Guru, Khenrinpoche Geshe Lama Lhundrup says, comes from conditions of previous lives. You wonder how lamas can do all the things they do. You can do them too! If Milarepa, who was a murderer, could become a Buddha in that lifetime, you can too! I recommend you read Milarepa’s life story.

Anger and Buddha Nature

What is it that causes us to get angry? One important reason is when others hurt the people close to us. Buddhist texts teach that it’s due to our own egos that causes us to get angry. but if you think about it, actually we often get angry because someone has insulted, hurt or threatened someone we love, which then indirectly affects our egos. All of us have this thought of wanting to care for and protect the people we love. This ability of ours to loves and care for others shows that we have Buddha nature inside us. Even insects and animals have this Buddha nature, which is evident from how they care for their own families. However, because we are not yet enlightened, our Buddha nature is not pure; it is polluted and obscured. All of us can and will become a Buddha one day. You must at least intellectually understand this. We all will become Buddhas, it’s just a matter of when and how much we want to become a Buddha. We can all become Buddhas, but you must want it for yourself and strive to attain it yourself; no one can make you a Buddha. In fact, no one can make you happy., Only you can make yourself happy! We have got to get this foundation right, and understand that our happiness ultimately depends on ourselves, not others. We cannot go on blaming others for our suffering.

You have the great power to make decisions as to whether you want to be happy. Whether you are happy or not is not in the hands of some god or any other person. You must understand this. If you don’t want to be happy, no one can make you happy. If you’re in a bad mood, everywhere you go or whatever you experience, you will perceive as causing you unhappiness because your all your perceptions have been coloured by your bad mood.

So if someone causes harm to your loved one, the best way is to first relax. People often say that the best way to deal with difficult situations, such as when you see your loved ones getting harmed, is to leave things as they are and “let time heal things”. However, in reality, time only covers things up and doesn’t really solve the problem. You must actively take steps to deal with the problem.


Teaching By Lama Thuten Namdrol Dorje
www.thekchencholing.org
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leavin in 2 hour time [May. 8th, 2008|04:56 am]
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right now i am at airport terminal 1 bk havin my breakfast alone. Yes i will be going bkk alone on flight. No la, my fren is taking another flight. Will be back on sunday and not monday which i ve told some of my friends. But will reach singapore at about 7 plus at night. So no volleyball le . Anyway back track a bit. I had a good time at yesterday games. Let work hard for coming june com. We can make it and show some formation on tat day.
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Bkk.... here i come [May. 7th, 2008|01:26 pm]
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will be flying to bkk tml till mon with mi fren....

1st overseas holidae this yr....

1st time to Bkk too....

1st time with this fren of mine.....

hope i will enjoy miself..... though a bit budgeted.
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Dharma Time, Anytime [May. 6th, 2008|10:59 am]
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Dharma Time, Anytime

All traditional religions share one common ground – for their teachings to be of benefit to all. Indeed, this is so for Buddhism.

Buddhism introduces us to ourselves and helps us understand ourselves better.

But why study Buddhism? Buddhism introduces us to ourselves and helps us understand ourselves better. Think back to the “you” that you were 10 years ago, how different are you from the “you” that you are now?

Chances are, you would be very different today … in terms of how you think, see and describe yourself.

As time passes, the description of the self changes. Even the description of you at any one point of time would be different. If I were to ask you to describe yourself to 3 people – your boss, your children and your closest friend – at this very moment, I am sure the three descriptions of yourself would be very different.

Looking through the body, we realize that our body is not the “I” that we so often refer to. Instead, it merely houses the “I”. So it is important that we do not place too much unnecessary emphasis on making the “I” happy and generating an attachment to the self – the self that does not even truly exist on its own side.

…we normally engage our mind in autogear – besides focusing our efforts on making money, there is normally little impetus to improve the spiritual aspects of the mind.

What makes Buddhism so attractive today is its flexibility. Buddhism is represented by 3 main aspects of lifestyle, religion and secret training. While the ultimate aim is to obtain liberation from the cyclic suffering of samsara, the method in which one achieves that is flexible. As followers, you have the option to embrace whichever aspect you think is more suitable for you. Unless vows are taken, there are no hard and fast rules in Buddhism. Even if vows are taken, one must remember to apply the vows with wisdom and especially applying the essence of Buddha’s teaching of adopting the middle view of non-extremism.

In our everyday living, we normally engage our mind in autogear – besides focusing our efforts on making money, there is normally little impetus to improve the spiritual aspects of the mind.

We also tend to compartmentalise our lives – weekdays for work, evenings and weekends for family, perhaps a little time everyday before sleep for prayers.

But Buddhism is a way of blending your life, career and religion. I paraphrase His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama who said that the greatest mistake in life would be to separate life from Dharma.

Indeed, cultivation of The Middle Path is like putting the mind through 24-hourround- the-clock training. We should learn to see every single “non-Dharma” external experience and link it to Dharma. For instance, as we dress ourselves for work every morning, reflect upon and appreciate the kindness of all the kind sentient beings that had a hand in creating that comfortable cotton shirt or beautiful silk blouse you put on.

…the greatest mistake in life would be to separate life from Dharma.

Through this, we further realise how even though we often consider ourselves independent of other people, this is in reality not the case at all. When we are mindful of all our daily actions, we will avoid falling into the trap of compartmentalising life into Dharma and non-Dharma activities.

Being mindful of ourselves is key to the success of our Dharma practice. After all, Dharma practice is basically about guarding one’s mind. Our conceptual mind is strong and it often causes us to label and grasps at things around us. We do not realise that these labels are ultimately artificial and serve only to draw us deeper into delusion.

… recognise that we already have in our possession the most precious wish-fulfilling jewel we could ever have –
a perfect human rebirth.

So how do we guard our mind?

First of all, recognise that we already have in our possession the most precious wishfulfilling jewel we could ever have – a perfect human rebirth. We should rejoice at having this incomparable opportunity to come into contact with the Dharma and to be free to practice the Buddha’s teachings.

We should also cultivate a healthy and positive attitude towards death. As we recognise its certainty, we should also rejoice at every day that we are able to wake up to, and to see it as being given another chance to purify our negativities and accumulate merit.

Next, we look around us and realise that every single being is searching for the same thing – happiness. With this thought, we develop the thought of bodhichitta – the aspiration to gain enlightenment to benefit all sentient beings.

When Buddha taught the Dharma, there was a customised lesson to suit the needs of all kinds of sentient beings in his 84,000 teachings. In particular, the teachings can be categorised into the 3 main groups – the Hinayana, Mahayana and Vajrayana.

The Hinayana teachings, also known as the Theravada or Hearer’s vehicle, direct the practitioner to abandon attachment to the self in this current life, not to harm sentient beings. The objective was to reach Nirvana and attain Arhatship so that he does not undergo further rebirth.

In the Mahayana Vehicle, the emphasis is likewise to abandon attachment to this life, but in addition to liberating the self, the practitioner aspires and works towards liberating other sentient beings as well.

The Vajrayana Vehicle, like the Mahayana Vehicle, encourages its practitioners to aspire to become Buddha and liberate other sentient beings. It further teaches that its practitioners to incorporate Dharma into all of life’s activities with the aim of ultimately realising the union of Wisdom and Compassion.

In the Mahayana Vehicle… in addition to liberating the self, the practitioner aspires and works towards
liberating other sentient beings as well.

At this point, I would like to share another perspective of the 3 Scopes that will give you some food for thought.

Since food is an important part of every culture and the soy bean holds a special place in the Asian cuisine, let’s consider the humble soy bean.

In its unprocessed and whole form, we can think of it as Buddha’s Hinayana scope – providing lots of nutrition and serving to benefit all who eat it.

Now, expand this humble soy bean in hot boiling water and then grind it into a paste. The bean loses its original form and identity but retains its nutritious essence. I liken this to practitioners of the Mahayana who like this soy bean, circle in the boiling waters of samsara everyday. The emphasis is on helping others, regardless of what happens to their own form and identity.

Next, allow this boiled bean to ferment with the addition of special bacteria and we soon have our various types of soy sauces. Many of us forget that the fermentation itself is a smelly and disgusting process. I am sure that if we all experienced the process, we could never want to see another bottle of soy sauce again.

… practitioners of the Mahayana who like this soy bean, circle in the boiling waters of samsara everyday.
The emphasis is on helping others, regardless of what happens to their own form and identity.

But think again because, like the fermenting bean that soon develops into its desired state, practitioners of the Vajrayana scope practice mindtransformation to see the dirt, grime and negativities of samsara and transform them into a practice that leads quickly to definite enlightenment.

Regardless of the level of practice you engage in, the Buddha’s teachings will all direct us towards uncovering the true state of our pure Buddha nature.

We should think and reflect more in our practice of compassion. We will achieve some result when we realise the immense debt we owe to all sentient beings. We will awaken to more ideas and realise that compassion has to be applied at the right time, to the right people… and done with wisdom.

As we practice the Mahayana, we should train in the Bodhichitta mind. Dedicate any action that you undertake, whether to accumulate merit or confess any wrongdoings, to the great enlightenment so that countless sentient beings may benefit when you become a Buddha.

We will achieve some result when we realise the immense debt we owe to all sentient beings.

Here are some simple practices you can incorporate into your daily life to practice the Dharma and accumulate merit.

Before each meal, spend some time to reflect on the spread before you. Pray for the animals that had died to become your food, so that they would quickly gain a higher rebirth. Next, generate appreciation and rejoice in the merits of all the sentient beings whose efforts resulted in the delicious meal before you – this includes the farmer who planted the rice grains you are eating, the butcher who sold you the pork in your sweet and sour pork dish, the stall keeper who packed your fresh green vegetables … right down to the person who cooked and served you the tasty, nutritious meal.

Besides accumulating merits by making offerings, you can also accumulate vast merits by rejoicing at the merits of others.

Besides accumulatin g merits by making offerings,
you can also accumulate vast merits by rejoicing at the merits of others.

For instance, you may have driven past and admired many beautiful houses, complete with huge manicured gardens and long impressive driveways. Instead of feeling envious and upset that you do not possess anything quite as impressive, grab hold of such stray thoughts and transform them. Rejoice in the house owner’s good karma that allows him to live in such a big, beautiful house. Visualise this house as an offering that you make and dedicate the merits of this offering to gaining enlightenment for the benefit of all sentient beings.

This technique can be applied to practically anything and everything that catches your fancy. The key here is to make the offerings sincerely from our hearts, else we risk cultivating greed and attachment instead.

Practicing the Dharma does not require you to invest lots of money but it does require you to invest effort. As long as you make a sincere effort to be mindful of your daily actions, this can and will become Dharma.

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(no subject) [Mar. 20th, 2008|02:38 pm]
Sex and the City: The Four Women, the Four Elements
Your results are based on the four Elements of Astrology: Fire, Earth, Air and Water. Each Element has its own set of characteristics, and each of us displays some combination thereof, usually with a focus on one or two. Samantha, Miranda, Carrie and Charlotte each personify one of the Elements and its basic traits. Which Elements most strongly influence you?

Note: Scores are rounded to one decimal place and therefore may not total 100%
You scored 40% Miranda
You chose many of the same answers that Earth Sign-like Miranda, the cynical but pragmatic lawyer, might have chosen. Just like Miranda's had a tough time deciding whether to give in to the affections of Steve the Bartender, you don't give your heart up to just anyone. Miranda shies away from a relationship with Steve because he's 'just' a bartender, not something more conventionally ambitious or stable. Those with powerful Earth Sign qualities -- characteristics associated with Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn -- are cautious in love and seek stability and status over nearly anything else. Earth Signs provide a steady, realistic attitude and they can bring order out of chaos. A little-known Earth Sign fact: Incredibly sensual, you seethe beneath that smart, expensive business suit of yours, yearning for intimacy but hesitant to give up your material needs, your career ambitions or your responsibilities for a passionate moment that might not turn out the way you'd hope.

You scored 40% Charlotte
A romantic at heart, you chose the answers that demure Charlotte may have chosen. Strongly influenced by the intuitive, profound and sometimes naïve Water Signs -- Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces -- you're like a mother, a mystery and a poet all in one. Though on the surface you may seem innocent and all about seeking the good in people, beneath the surface, you hide secret yearnings for intimacy, for attachment and ideal love. You're seeking a knight in shining armor, a soul mate, someone who will complete you and tether you to the earth when you get carried away with your fantasies. You're super-sensitive, soaking up the moods of others; you emote freely, crying at commercials and sappy movies. You also provide a shoulder to cry on and open arms for hugs. Be careful that you're not so wide-eyed and trusting that you get taken in by some cunning wolf in sheep's clothing.

You scored 10% Carrie
Your answers peg you as a Carrie-type, much influenced by the Air Sign qualities associated with Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Like confident Carrie, a sex columnist, you're curious and perceptive, always seeking answers and never satisfied with the superficial. An Air Sign influence can lead to indecision and an avoidance of tough issues, like with Carrie and her on-again, off-again attachment to Mr. Big. Forward-thinking, incredibly intelligent and witty, you just exude quirky charm. You'd be utterly bored by someone who's just a pretty face or hot body -- though you don't mind looking and flirting! You're more turned on by an equally smart and funny mate, someone who challenges your mind and makes you laugh. You love to talk, so you need a good listener who's open to playful and eccentric ideas about love and lovemaking.

You scored 10% Samantha
You identify with Samantha's bold and liberated Fire Sign qualities, characteristics associated with the Signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. You're strong, audacious and larger than life -- and you take what you want! Sometimes you can even be thoughtless and selfish, as you get so caught up in craving immediate gratification and excitement that you overlook someone's feelings. Your personal style likely reflects your desires: sleek, low-cut, revealing just a bit more than might be considered acceptable. Watch that you're not coming on too strong, though. You could scare potential suitors off with all your drama. If you seek so much attention, the more basic qualities of the Fire Signs could be burned right out of the picture. Show less skin or cleavage and more of your creativity, your vibrant leadership skills and courageous generosity!
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anyone wanna take part???? [Mar. 7th, 2008|08:16 pm]
 
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